Husband and I aren't speaking?

I got into a huge fight with my husband a few days ago over something trivial but it exploded into something huge where we both said alot of hurtful things, stuff we can't take back, and I don't know how much of it he really meant and vice versa. We haven't talked in three days. I want to be the first to say something but feel I'm the one who always tries to make up first. Plus I'm still hurt by some of the stuff he said and I know he is too. Should we just forgive and forget what was said?